to-do list...

I’ve noticed that the women who are most successful in relationship and dating treat the idea of a man as an item on their to-do list. Go to the gym - check. Grocery shop – check. Pick-up dry cleaning – check. Go on date with Steve – check. They don’t fret, worry, wonder, or daydream. They go about their lives, happy and content, not waiting by the phone or constantly checking for texts. These women would not stand the abuse Cinderella put up with. They’d kick that ugly step-mother’s butt along with her two miserable daughters and leave, never to look back. They wouldn’t wait around for some “prince” to come.

I’ve decided to be the same way. I’m over worrying and wondering having my life tumble out of control just because I’ve met someone I’m attracted to. If something is meant to be it will be and in the meantime, I’m going to continue to mark things off my to-do list. Be happy –check. Raise healthy well rounded boy – check. Delight in your friends – check. Write a bestseller – check. Write post for blog – check.